Was in the shower, when I think of my mummy, then
something else about insurance strucked me and reminded me about
what had happened recently, and how some people are easily bought
over by promises that has the shadow of being for your
advantages.
Here's goes: I was involved in a family dispute, with my
father and stepmother argued about his china g/f thingy. My
father named me as the troublemaker between him and his new
wife.
Somehow, stepmother did a about turn on the china g/f thingy,
most likely over finance issues, and was trying to convince me that
my father is right, and that he really 'cared' about me.
Apparently, she was bought over with his argument, that he loves
us children, because he already set his nomination of his CPF to be
evenly distributed among all 4 children.
I was practically livid; to be appointed their scrapegoat for
their little 'misunderstanding' and for the CPF remark.
The way stepmother says it! Manz!
I know very well how much my father has in his CPF account,
because he only started contributing CPF at the ripe old age of 57
years old for 10 months only.
My own CPF, been accumulating since I was 13-14 years old, when
he deserted the family for his malaysian lover. ie. I've been
working since I was young to at least pay my school fees and
expenses. He has left us desitute, my mother been a
housewife and myself, my younger sister and even kindergarden
brother with some 250k bankruptcy debts.
And he wants to show his 'fatherly love' by nominating 25% of
his CPF to me after he died?
I was telling stepmother: 'My CPF has higher amounts then he
does. He really think thats very 'generous'? With the
quip, that if I die which should be soon, he and my mummy gets 50%
of my CPF, that is still currently 4 times his CPF in total!
